Flirting with your crush is important when it comes to sparking up a new relationship. Make sure you’re doing it right by asking these questions.
When it comes to your crush, you always want to find a way to let them know you’re interested… without overkill. I’ve seen this so many times, and honestly, it’s never easy to watch. A lot of times, people think that flirting should be straight-forward so the “flirtee” gets the hint.
However, finding a connection with someone you’re interested in can be much easier when you do it in a subtle manner. By making a point to ask them questions and get to know them, you’re pointing out how much you like them, but you’re not flirting so much that they feel trapped.
Flirting should always be subtle and easy. Someone once told me that the best way to flirt with someone is to leave them wondering if you’re flirting.
Yes. It should be that simple.
Questions that will light the fire within your crush
Some of the best questions to ask your newly found crush are ones that help you get to know them and draw attention to their personal life. These 40 questions will plant the idea that you’re interested and help you find out more about them, their interests, and their personal tastes.
#1 Have you been working out?
#2 What are you looking for in a girl/guy?
#3 How can someone like you not have a boyfriend/girlfriend?
#4 How did you get so attractive?
#5 How are you so good at _______?
#6 What would be your ideal date?
#7 Why are you so funny?
#8 What did you first think of me?
#9 What’s the most romantic date you’ve ever been on?
#10 Who’s your celebrity crush?
#11 Who do you think should make the first move? Guys or girls?
#12 Would you rather be considered sexy or smart?
#13 Are you looking to get a boyfriend/girlfriend anytime soon?
#14 What’s the one thing that makes you the happiest?
#15 What do you wear to bed—if anything?
#16 Would you ever go to a nude beach?
#17 What would you do if I told you how attractive you are?
#18 What are your favorite pet names?
#19 What’s your biggest turn on when dating someone?
#20 How would you describe yourself in 3 words?
#21 Okay, now how would you describe me in 3 words?
#22 Are you a butt or a boob guy? Be honest.
#24 Do you find tattoos sexy?
#25 Have you ever been skinny dipping?
#26 *If answer to previous question is “no”* Would you ever go skinny dipping?
#27 Are your parents as good-looking as you?
#28 What’s the most embarrassing thing that’s ever happened to you when you were with a significant other?
#29 Would you prefer to make out or cuddle? Or make out, then cuddle?
#30 If you could have any job in the world, what would it be?
#31 Do you prefer a pool or a hot tub?
#32 Have you ever had sex on the beach? No. I don’t mean the drink.
#33 What’s one thing you would lie about to your girlfriend/boyfriend?
#34 What’s the naughtiest thing you’ve ever said to someone?
#35 What was your very first date like?
#36 What makes you the most nervous?
#37 Would you rather be invisible or have x-ray vision?
#38 If you could change one thing about your life right now, what would it be?
#39 What room—other than the bedroom—gets you going the most?
#40 How about we go out sometime?
These forty questions are great to spark an initial conversation with your crush—or more. If you are nervous, shy, or unsure how to get a relationship off the ground, use these phrases to put you and your prospective amour at ease, while learning more about them.