It is undeniable, getting over someone isn’t always that easy. Specifically getting over a crush isn’t easy if you’re the type that goes way beyond her way to see him right? Or you’re someone who’s been crushing on someone for the longest time. It’s hard to move on if seeing your crush or even that simple act of him/her passing by is enough to call it a day and for your crush to know you exist is already a big thing. All you ask for is his company and that alone is enough.
1. He/she doesn’t appreciate you
You can try all you want but you know deep down he or she is not appreciative of your actions. It might be a hard pill to swallow but you need to accept the way things are and give up you feeling towards the crush.
2. You shared one “moment,” but he never acted any further on it.
Maybe it was a kiss. Maybe it was a full-on hookup. Maybe it was something he said. Maybe it was just a look the two of you exchanged in which it felt like you both just knew. The point is, nothing ever happened after the moment. He never brought it up again. You never talked about it. It was just lost in the abyss.
3. There is someone else
You might be really into your crush but he or she is actually pinning for someone else. In that situation, you need to step back from the situation, because even if your crush shows interest, it might be in terms of “back up plan.”
4. How he treats you is everything
The way he treats you is the way he feels about you. If he doesn’t seem to give you a lot of attention or it’s only sporadic, it’s time to say goodbye and find someone who will treat you the way you deserve. You have to remember you are capable of love and being loved. You deserve nothing less than the best, especially when you know that you’ve given the situation your all.
5. He/She don’t want to commit
Finding out that your crush likes you back is probably one of the more exciting moments in life… unless you get stuck in relationship limbo. You’ve both admitted that you have feelings for each other, you spend a fair amount of time together and you’re in pretty regular contact with each other, but you’ve been in that stage for quite a while and you’re still no closer to dating.
6. You are not a priority to them
You guys make plans all the time, but he only follows through about half the time. And that’s being generous. It’s pretty obvious to everyone, including yourself, that you are in no way, shape or form a priority to him.
7. It’s causing you more hurt than happiness
We’re all guilty of pretending that the small moments are worth the torturous ones in between. But let’s be honest, they’re really not. If you’re sitting by your phone for five minutes but it feels more like an hour as you wait for him to respond, you need to start looking elsewhere for fulfillment that you’re not going to be able to get with him.
8. You started feeling unworthy
A lot of people tend to judge their worth based on who’s standing beside them. And while it’s always a good idea to surround yourself with good people, your self worth comes from looking in the mirror and realizing how good a person you are. No one should make you feel unworthy of what you want. So if that person is doing that, they’re the one unworthy of you.