Kissing is by far the most sensual and exciting thing you can do with another person. In a way, a kiss is even more intimate than sex. When you’re completely engaged with another person’s face — your lips, bodies, and minds connecting — you have the potential to create a moment that’s way more intense than any other things. For all the interested men out there, we know that you’re confident in your skills to lip-lock, but everyone could use a little help every once in a while.
If you want to up your kissing game, then maybe you could follow some of these tips and try them out on your woman. At the very least, you’ll be giving her a new experience every time you start your make-out sessions.
1. Slow and Wisely
Don’t rush into your kiss. Approach her slowly, put your lips in front of hers, and very slowly make gentle contact. Don’t let your hands be idle. Make use of them by wrapping your arms around her to the point where your bodies actually feel like one. Let her enjoy the buildup. Slowly slide your lips across hers to make her feel the full experience of your lush lips.
2. Keep your eyes wide shut
If the kiss is worth it, then the eyes are definitely closed. Still, some men acknowledged just how hot a smoldering glance can be.
3. Kiss Softly
The softer you kiss her, the more passionate the situation will get. Making it a little sloppy doesn’t hurt your cause either, but make sure she knows that you’re being sloppy with your saliva purposely because it can go against your favour if she thinks otherwise. This will set her up for you, and she will take you in as her lover, not just a toy to get her off eventually.
4. Nibble a little
Bite a little. Lightly, of course. Throwing a surprise new sensation into the mix like that is really hot. Bite her in her erogenous zones lightly, very lightly. Bite her earlobes, her lower lip every now and then to mix things up. If you don’t go too hard on her, and make it through with the right amount of pressure, you will have her squirming in pleasure in no time.
5. Let her initiate
Most modern men believe in a woman’s right to vote, a woman’s right to choose, and a woman’s right to take control in the bedroom whenever she damn well feels like it. When a girl takes control and goes in for the kiss, it’s a huge turn on and a welcome change of pace.
6. Get a little kinky
For adventurous kissers, there are some moves you can make that will completely rock his world. Just beware — not all men are into the same things, so feel him out first.
7. Live that moment only
Kiss without expectations. Yes, it would be great if your kissing eventually led to sex, but anticipation can take away from the actual kissing experience. Just live in the moment. Enjoy it and let the chips fall where they may. Let your intimacy take its natural course.
Great kisses start with conversation. From the intonation of phrases uttered and the innuendo of words spoken to the restrained desire in the eyes. Communicate sweet nothings to each other. Tell her she’s beautiful. Tell her that you love her. Tell her that she’s amazing and that you won’t ever let her go. For a kiss to be truly great, there has to be both a physical and a mental connection between the two people.
9. Compliment her
Compliment her on her kissing skills. Let her know whenever you’re enjoying what she’s doing. This is a great way of letting her know that you’re comfortable with being honest. It also gives her the confidence to try new things with you.