Decoding women and their thoughts is, indeed, one of the biggest mysteries of all times. Moreover, when it comes to what women want in bed, the discussion becomes all the more mysterious. While you may think you’re clued into your girlfriend’s every want and need, there are probably some actions she’s too shy to request. She may not say it while she’s getting hot n’heavy with you but trust us, she’s thinking it! Read on to make those wishes your command—and blow her mind in the process.
1. Dirty Talk
Women respond well to a wide variety of sexual stimuli. It’s not all just about touching.Lots of ladies love to hear the right words to get them in the mood. Whispering naughty things in your girl’s ear will fire her up and make her want you even more. When she is getting her sexy on, she want to feel sexy and when you whisper in her ear how sexy she is, it really turn her on. Tell her why you enjoy being with her and you can then use these words to excite her every time. You can even stimulate your partner into trying new things and being more adventurous by using the right words and inspiring her sexual imagination. Talk about fantasies, reminisce about the craziest sexual things the two of you ever did. Describe what you want to do to her.
Knowing how to arouse your woman is one of the most essential parts of your sex life. Unlike men, women are not always ready to have sex. They need a little warm up session to prepare themselves, both mentally and physically. Hence, some good foreplay techniques can always work wonders for you when it comes to satisfying your woman. She wants to feel that you appreciate every part of her body. And, you’ll discover that the simplest areas can become erogenous zones if treated properly. So, as you build up to sex, run your hands over every bit of her, not just the parts associated with sex.
3. Eye Contact
Sexual eye contact is wonderful for both partners. The experience of having an orgasm while looking into your partner’s eyes is incredible. It helps to boost your pleasure and build the connections between the two of you. Locking of the eyes while having sex is an experience so exciting and it adds drama to the whole event. It is true that men prefer looking at the partner but fixing the eyes on her is something different. This requires passion and it is important that you keep a sight contact with the person with whom you are in deadly in love with.
4. Play a Little Rough
You will be surprised to see this in the list, but yes some women do like their men to be a little dominant in bed, at times. We aren’t talking about any kind of abuse or forcing your partner to do things they don’t want to do. But, yes, some women do enjoy getting into the rough areas and a little dirty talk to top it up. They were most excited when being manhandled and ridden hard. Whether this takes the form of hair pulling, spanking, dirty talk, deeper thrusting or something else entirely, many women appreciate and enjoy when a man takes control and gets aggressive in bed. If she doesn’t like it, then of course you should stop, as rough sex isn’t for everyone.
5. Watching Porn Together
This is something that a good number of couples already do together. Watching porn together can give some insight to what you and your partner like or don’t like. This can also be an opportunity to look up ways to spice it up in the bedroom and discover new positions. While watching porn, this can be your chance to really ask if there’s anything weird that your partner is into. It can open up a line of communication to a very pleasurable experience.
Fantasies are an integral part of our sexuality and learning how to role play can lead to better sex and a better relationship with your partner. Role play keeps your sexual connection new and exciting. You don’t need to head to a swingers club or engage in S&M to spice up your sex life. With a bit of imagination, you can experience some scorching hot sex in other ways! All you need to do is step into somebody else’s shoes for an evening. Your lady would love to experiment with her wild fantasies as well. So, just keep your eyes and ears open!
7. Be A Man And Take Control
A lot of women like it when the guy takes control in the bedroom. This doesn’t mean forcing her to do things she doesn’t want.But, it means leading the way. Don’t follow a routine or lie there expecting her to do all the work. Try new things and take the lead in sexual situations. Decide on the position, the activity and the pace. As you take control, you will see her grow more adventurous and confident. As a result, this will make your love sessions much more passionate for the pair of you.
8. Kissing and Cuddling After Sex
There’s nothing worse than going into separate corners after finishing sex and letting it get too awkward. You two just got very intimate with each other, and there needs to be time spent together after that. Many girls would enjoy kissing during and after sex, especially because some guys forget that she like that. Cuddling after sex shows her that it meant something to you, too and that it was enjoyable for the both of you.
9. Give Her Orgasms In A Variety Of Ways
Women work differently than men. Women can actually have various types of orgasm that each feel different. Orgasms can be attained by vaginal penetration, oral sex, fingering, the use of toys and more. Don’t ignore your woman’s needs and start giving her the pleasure she deserves. If she feels more satisfied in bed, she’s much more likely to want more regular sex and will please you in whole new ways, as well.
The more you’ve gotten to know what thrills her by inquiring and listening with an open mind over the course of your relationship with her, the better ideas you’ll have about how to really turn her on to her fullest extent.