Flirting with a cute guy might seem like an impossible task, but it’s easier than you think! You have the biggest crush on this guy but you don’t have the faintest idea about any flirting rules that would actually enable you to flirt with him. You can flirt with a guy from across the room by relying on friendly body language, like a coy smile or a playful hair flip.
To flirt with him light touching, playful teasing, and sincere compliments work well.
1. Play the ‘Caught-Ya-Lookin’ Eye Game
If you see someone you like, you should always make it a point to look his way a couple of times, hoping he catches you in the act. And when he does, you can give him an ever-so-sly smile, look at him for a couple of more seconds and look away. This lets him know that you’re interested and it’s just so much fun to make eye contact in a room full of people. Just don’t get caught looking at him too often no matter how pretty he is. That’s plain creepy, and one of the most important flirting rules is to avoid being creepy at all costs.
It’s easy, effective and any girl can do it! Smiling is the easiest way to flirt. It’s guaranteed to make you look a lot prettier, and you don’t have to prepare for it first. Another advantage to a smile is that it’s non-committal. You could be flirting with him, or you could be remembering something funny that someone said to you earlier in the day. So you don’t have to be embarrassed if he doesn’t flirt back.
3. Get him wondering
If you have worked up the guts to go talk to him, just remember to keep it playful. Flirting has to be fun! Smile, and by that I don’t mean the flight attendant kind of fake smile. I mean a genuine, warm smile that makes you seem approachable and friendly. Teasing him playfully is also a good way to get him comfortable. In fact, when it comes to flirting, less is more. Overt turn-on attempts sometimes just spook a guy — he may sense heavy pressure to perform or feel out of control of the situation.
4. Look your best
Without being fake, make an effort to look your best around the guy you like. Guys are visual creatures so looking your best will simply spin the odds in your favor. But most importantly, when you look your best you’ll feel your best – giving you the confidence you need to let your awesome personality shine through. A little make-up can go a long way. You don’t need to color-by-number your face, but mascara opens up your eyes, lip-balm enhances your smile, concealer can cover and insecurities, and tweezers could really help nightmare eyebrows. Just wear what you are comfortable with.
5. Compliment him the right way
Guys, much like us girls, like to get a cute compliment. If you like something about a guy, make sure you compliment him about it. He will love it that you noticed something great about himSo if you think his smile is cute, let him know! If you love the tee he’s wearing, let him know! But as with every tip, be frugal with the compliments too. It’s sweet to hear “Awww I love your smile” once, maybe twice. Any more and you’re probably going to creep him out.
6. Ask him a question
Most men love imparting wisdom or giving advice, so don’t be afraid to ask him a question. The more obvious flirt uses the technique to draw attention to herself. For example, you say you’re thinking of getting a haircut and ask him whether he prefers it long or short. You lift your hair up to demonstrate, revealing the line of your neck – as well as your intentions!
7. Touch him now and then
This is one of the best ways to make a guy desire you and want to flirt with you. Men just can’t help but go weak in the knees when a girl they’re flirting with, touches them. It’s involuntary, but every time a girl touches a guy, either on his arm or his shoulder, the guy opens up more and feels more comfortable to talk to the girl or flirt with her.
8. Laugh at his jokes
We all know how hard men try to amuse us. They constantly want us to be smiling and laughing and giggling the entire time we are around them. Ladies, even if he’s not really being all that funny, if he is putting an honest effort out there to make you laugh, just do it. It doesn’t have to be over-the-top, where you’re holding your sides and barely able to contain yourself. Just a little giggle and a smile his way will make him feel like he’s the funniest man in the world!
9. Don’t try too hard
Finally, the subtle flirt comes across as a fun and confident person that others want to be around – not a needy woman who’s desperate to bag her man. If you meet a guy and you’re really attached to the idea of him being your boyfriend, that pressure – that neediness – is something he’ll sense.