How To Approach Women At The Bar

A lot has been said about approaching women at the bar that we thought it’s about time we set the record straight. There are no universal ways to woo a woman, so the dos and don’ts won’t work equally for everyone. However, these five rules would at least ensure that you don’t fail before you even make your move; take it from a woman. 1) Stop Worrying About What She’ll Think First things first – you have to take it easy. If you worry about your intention or her opinion about you, then you might as well ditch making your move. She’ll probably appreciate you more if you go and talk to her normally, like a man. Walk up to her with a confident smile (of course in a non creepy way) and rely on humour to start up the conversation. She has no option but to like you. 2) Approach the Group Women find men who can make her friends laugh extremely interesting, so that has to be your goal. Approach the group, even if there are guys in it. Sure, you've noticed her and want her attention too, but it involves a lot of ground work. Girls like a good chase, it makes us feel special. 3) Never Flash The Cash Money can buy everything, but not necessarily her attention and time. You can start up by ordering a round of shots for everyone. That’s casual and cool, but don’t flash your money further. You are dressed up, you ordered the first round of shots and carry an expensive watch, we get it - you’re rich. If you attract any woman's attention with your money, chances are she’s of the wrong type. 4) Don’t Drink Too Much Drinking alcohol in order to get some courage is one thing. But the combination of sloppy you and a hot girl is a recipe for disaster. Slurring in your speech and spilling your drink everywhere will not take you anywhere, let alone in her pants; tact and attentiveness will. 5) Don’t Call her Nicknames You may think addressing her with cutesy names such as babe or sugar is sexy and a smart move. But, you can’t be more wrong. It just goes on to prove that you call every other girl in the bar with such terms of endearment. There is nothing wrong in saying ‘excuse me’ or ‘hey’. They’re still in fashion.

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