Every woman wants to know if her man’s love is the real thing. Knowing the answer is critical to making any future decisions about the relationship. The point is, love is a tricky thing. A guy can say he loves you and not truly mean it, and a guy can love you a lot but not be ready to say it. Love, as beautiful as it is, can also be scary, and a lot of us keep our guard up until we’re sure he feels a certain way in order to keep from getting hurt. As the saying goes, before you fall in love, make sure there is someone there to catch you. The trouble with this is that when you get caught up in trying to figure out if a man loves you, you can no longer be present in the relationship. Instead of connecting, you are stuck in your own worried thoughts, and those thoughts produce fears and insecurities that ultimately block you from getting the love you want. Check the following 9 signs he loves you and see if he has fallen for you in a way that no words that can express his feelings.
1. Loves your natural beauty.
You might get a lot of heads turning when you walk in the club. You are a stunning princess who likes to dress to impress. But he loves the way you look even when you are dressed down, with your pyjamas. Even these days where you have no make up on and you hate your freckled face. It’s a sign he loves you when he’s not interested on all the accessories and fake things you put on, but likes you for who you really are. Passion and desire are feelings that might attract men in the first place, but real love is what they keep them around. And real love comes from real, natural beauty.
2. Compliments you.
In his eyes you should be the most beautiful thing he’s ever seen and he should be voicing that too. Whether he uses the words sexy, stunning, gorgeous or beautiful he should be letting you know how unbelievably attractive you are to him. He will remind you that he understands how lucky he is to have a wife so endearing and full of beauty.
3. Always treats you with respect.
If his respect for you is inconsistent or only occurs sparingly, your relationship cannot flourish. In love, you cannot pick and choose the time and place to be kind, considerate, and respectful. Being considerate and respectful one day and rude and inconsiderate the next is not an option. Your partner either is all of these things or he is not. It’s really that simple.
4. Treats you like a priority.
Everyone is busy; we all have work or school or other commitments. When a man loves you, he will make spending time with you a priority. And if he really doesn’t have time, he’ll make sure to let you know when he will. When a man loves you, you’re the most important person in his life and he makes sure to carve out a place in it for you.
5. Supports your dreams.
You might have crazy plans to be the next Top Model, or take over from Oprah Winfrey when she retires. Or to sell millions of records and be the most famous pop star. One of the signs he loves you is that he never laughs with your dreams, no matter how insane they look. He is always behind you to support your decisions. Your boyfriend goes the extra mile to help you out when it comes to realizing your dreams. He treats your targets as they were his. Not because he doesn’t have his own dreams, but he wants to team up with you. Your boyfriend feels that this is a great way to come even closer to you and show how much he cares about you. But plans don’t got always as planned and you both know it. Not a problem! One of the undeniable signs he loves you is that he has a tissue ready when you failed and realised how high you set the bar. He never says “I told you so”. On the contrary, he will be super supportive and will try to cheer you up, doing what you love best.
6. Your relationship based on equality.
When you’re in a healthy relationship, and when your guy truly loves and respects you, he’ll treat you as an equal partner in his life, and as an individual who has an equal say in the relationship. If you feel like your partner never even considers your opinion in the important decisions of the relationship and if he expects you to accept and follow all of his instructions without questioning them, then he doesn’t truly love you.
7. Doesn’t give up.
He puts his all into the relationship and really commits to making it work. When you love someone, you don’t quit without a fight. If a man says he loves you but doesn’t want to try anymore, or gives up because he thinks it’s too hard, then it probably wasn’t real love. You don’t give up on love unless you have put everything you have into making it work, and it was just impossible.
8. Can not imagine his life without you
Does he ever talk about the future together? Does he make you feel like you’re a constant part of his life decisions, a part he couldn’t survive without? When you truly love someone, one thing that is sure to happen is that you become incapable of imagining a life without your significant other. You feel like a life without them wouldn’t even be a life at all. If you think your partner has never made you feel this way, then maybe this relationship is just something that will fade away with time.
9. Answers your text messages in no time.
You just texted him “hey sweetie, where are you?” and 2 seconds later you got an answer with the full address and location of his whereabouts. He also added who is he with and when he is coming back. He then closes the text with an always welcome confirmation that he misses you. If you are still wondering how can he text back so fast, you are missing the point. If that’s not a sign that he loves you, then what is? The guy is on fire with text messages and something is telling me that he can’t take his eyes of his phone, constantly checking if you have texted him. Time is of the essense and he can’t wait until he gets your response. It’s clear that you are into something here. Same goes with phone calls.