Every time we feel an overwhelming surge of affection for our partner, we want to do something special for them, just to let them know how much they mean to us and how much we care about them. And as the months and years pass by in the relationship, you may start to take each other for granted, or start to believe that excessive shows of affection in love is just corny.
But you need to change this now. Just because you’ve been in love for several years doesn’t mean you have to stop expressing your love through romantic gestures. Remember, the more often you try to please your lover or show them just how much you care through your gestures, the happier you’ll feel.
Easy and sweet romantic ideas to make your lover melt
These romantic tips will surely help both of you feel more connected and it’ll help improve communication and bring both of you a lot closer too!
1. Take showers together.
There’s something sensual about washing your partner’s body, paying extra attention to their… um… specific body parts, no? Yes, shower together to increase intimacy. One thing leads to another, and you’re shoving them to the shower wall and getting naughty, then it’s a win anywhere you look at it, eh?
2. Candlelight dinner.
You can plan a candlelight dinner at home, or spend an evening at a cozy restaurant. After all, candlelight dinners are one of the most romantic ideas to express your love to the special someone in your life. The warm glow of candles make everything seem so mellow and hazy, and the soft lights will only make both of you look sexier and feel more in love!
3. Write a romantic note
A handwritten love note or a love letter is its brand of romance. All you need is a bit of effort on your part, and you’ll make your partner so happy. Words are eternal; you can express whatever is in your mind through words. Written words touch a person like no other can. Write love notes and leave them in places around the house where your partner won’t expect it. Say, tape it on the bathroom mirror, on the coffeepot, on the back of the front door, on the kitchen cabinet, and so on.
4. Plan Some Surprises.
Plan a surprise every now and then. You can go all out and plan a surprise birthday or an anniversary celebration. Or you can surprise your partner out of the blue by doing something for them, be it a chore or breakfast in bed one weekend morning.
5. Text messages.
Do you ever text your lover to say something nice? Texts may be a good way to stay connected, but you could also use it to express just how you feel. You can send a line about how eager you are to meet them in the evening, or you can even use it to say something naughty to make your sweetheart blush and go pink!
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6. Make out in the rain.
If you or your partner is the typical romantic type, then this would appeal to you a lot. Sure, you’ve kissed your partner plenty of times, in plenty of locations, in front of people, when you’re alone, and whatnot. However, it’s a smidge more romantic when you kiss your partner in the rain. Just as the heavens open up, drag your partner outside, wipe off the never-ending slew of water drops off their face, and kiss them silly! If you could throw in some tongue action, you’ve got yourself a winner!
7. Cooking together.
Cooking may be a chore, but cooking together always seems like a fun thing to do as a couple. Plan an exotic menu together and spend an evening or an afternoon cooking together at a leisurely pace.
Bathrooms are sexy, but bathtubs, they’re just sensual and beautiful. Draw a bath for your husband or wife and slip in together. If you can have a few candles around, well, that just makes it a lot more romantic too. Both of you could just soak in the water, fool around for a while, or even make love. It’s all going to be just perfect.
9. Secret desires.
Is there something your partner really wants? Something they would love to have, but don’t really make the effort to pick it up? On a day when they least expect it, drop by at the store, get it gift wrapped and bring it home. Gifting something your lover’s always dreamed of having is thoughtful and romantic, all at once.
10. The questions game.
Spending an afternoon together and don’t know what to do? A perfect romantic idea that can build intimacy, bring both of you closer and improve communication is a good game of questions. They don’t have to be corny at all. As long as you ask the right questions, it’ll make both of you feel more romantic *perhaps, even horny!* in no time.
11. Have tantric sex.
Sexual intimacy is just as important as emotional intimacy for all couples. And no sexual act beats the intimacy tantric sex can bring to your relationship. If both of you can spare a few hours of undisturbed time, lock yourselves in the bedroom and prepare your minds for a sexual high that could leave both of you in ecstatic tears!
12. Watch the stars together.
Find a nice secluded spot, say, on your rooftop, or a safe, closed park, or even your own special spot, spread a blanket on the floor, and stargaze. While your faces are lit by the moonlight and the starlight, the silence surrounds you in a bubble of your own, it creates an illusion that it’s just the two of you in the entire universe. And if you get tired of watching the stars, you can always start making out! Just kidding!
There you go – if you’re trying to reignite the spark in your relationship, or are trying to never let it extinguish in the first place, then follow the above list, and you should be fine. You can add or modify any of them to suit your particular relationship and partner, and it’s fine, as long as you follow through with it. Good luck!