Understanding how to be irresistible to women is every guy’s dream, but not all of you can enjoy the luxuries of this fantasy. There are certain things about certain men that women love. In fact, they can’t control it. Have you ever seen women going absolutely goo-goo eyes over a particular guy, while you are thinking ‘What’s so special about him?’ Chances are he had one or more of these traits. The thing is, even one of these traits properly developed would have more women falling at your feet than you can ever want.
1. A man who takes care of himself is sexy.
Something that is so attractive in men is when they take care of themselves. Now that doesn’t mean you have to be pumping iron all day, every day, but to really know what types of foods you’re putting into your body and how to take care of it is pretty darn sexy.
2. A man who supports our dreams and goals.
When a man stands behind me 100%, no matter what, it shows how much he cares and truly believes in me. Being with someone who believes in you and your potential, and vice versa, will create a different dynamic in your relationship. There is less tension and less negativity because of how you believe in each other.
3. Attractiveness comes from making us laugh.
Sometimes, this is part of the personality, but sometimes it’s not. You can be very charming, but have no sense of humor. And I’m not just talking about cracking joke after joke after joke. It goes beyond that. Girls want someone who can laugh at himself, and laugh at life. Everyone loves to laugh, and it’s contagious!
4. A man with a purpose in life is hot.
It’s not about what your purpose is. What matters is that you have a purpose or that you’re in the process of discovering it. Your purpose can be any number of things. It can be to change the world. It can be to push your body to its limits. It can be to build a business or build homes. It can be to be to make art, or to be the kindest person you know.
5. Confidence is the fastest way to build attraction with anyone.
If ever there were a single trait women look for in a man, confidence would be it. That’s because confidence is built from an accumulation of all those previously described traits: the more of these qualities he possesses, the more his belief in himself is strengthened – which is undeniably sexy to women. On the other hand, when a man is lacking confidence, traits such as intelligence, good looks, or talent are more or less nullified. It’s like a well-endowed man who has no idea how to use his unusually large “gift.”
6. Trustworthy or Faithfulness creates ever lasting attraction.
More than 8 out of 10 women rated “faithful to me” in the top 10 attributes they find sexy in a man. A woman’s tendency toward attachment is a biological imperative, a matter of raising offspring right. Reassure her (often) that you’re not going anywhere.
7. An ability to enjoy the present moment.
With how busy we are and how connected we are to everyone and everything virtually, it is so attractive when a man can put his phone down, turn off the TV, shut down the computer and just enjoy being present. It is nice to be connected and be able to access almost any information that we need at the drop of a dime, but to be able to shut down without getting antsy to get back to Facebook or football is something you don’t come by too often.
8. Show Your Romantic Side.
While the rare exception might not mind tangoing with a sexually inexperienced man, most women prefer to be with guys who know their way around a female body, but don’t have to brag about it. A guy in tune with his sexuality knows when to turn on the romance or unleash the raw beast inside.
9. Healthy Sex Drive is So Sexy.
Hey, it’s the 21st century! It’s okay for girls to admit that they like sex. And trust me, they do. There’s nothing worse that dating a guy with a low sex drive. It makes us feel unattractive and unlovable. So, show her your love by making love to her on a regular basis.