After you’ve been in a relationship for awhile, it’s easy to fall into the same old routines and take each other for granted. Do you need to bring the spark back into your relationship? It doesn’t take a lot – just a sweet gesture here and there that shows you really care is all it takes to impress her.
We all know that actions speak louder than words, so let’s take a look at the special things that you can do to make your girlfriend happy and feel loved.
1. Cook for her
Whether you’re a master-chef or just a guy who can barely fry an egg, your efforts won’t go unappreciated. It feels nice every once in a while to not worry about whipping up a quick meal. There are tons of easy recipes online that only call for the simplest ingredients. Learn a few of them, practice a couple of times, and then surprise her with a freshly cooked meal.
2. Give her a romantic massage
Giving your partner a romantic massage is a simple yet effective way to show him how much you care
With a little preparation you can turn your bedroom into a relaxing paradise. A romantic massage will not only soothe tired muscles and refresh weary minds, it will also promote a deep sense of intimacy and unity in your relationship.
3. Take her on an unexpected adventure
It would be wonderful if you could whisk her away to an exotic destination for a week, but most of us don’t have that much time or money to spare. Don’t worry – just take her out for a day somewhere for a little adventure. Even time spent walking in a beautiful nature area, followed by dinner at a nice restaurant and a romantic night at a nearby hotel would be a nice surprise for your girlfriend or wife.
4. Plan a surprise dinner in the garden or balcony
Whether you’re celebrating something of just feeling fancy, this is a good one when it comes to nice things to do for your woman. When she comes home or comes over, surprise her with a dinner on the rooftop terrace of your building, in the garden, or even with a picnic in a nearby park if the weather permits!
5. Shower her with affection whenever you can
This doesn’t mean you have to get your hands all over her whenever you’re together. Affection can be as subtle as a random kiss on the cheek or a quick back rub when she looks tired. These tiny things you do can pick up her mood or even make her day a whole lot better!
6. Share your feelings
Women can’t read our minds *as much as we sometimes think they can*. Open up, share your feelings, let your girl know what’s on your mind. This will only create a closer bond between the two of you, not widen any gap that may be forming.
7. Seduce your woman
As your relationship ages, you do not want sex to become a chore, nor would you want to stick with the same positions every time, especially if it’s boring. If you find yourself in this rut, change it up a bit and make the experience all about your woman. By doing so, you are adding a new spark back into your sex life, one we can almost guarantee she will repay happily.
8. Find out her love language
The ways you show each other that you love each other might be vastly different. You might like to buy her gifts, but she might really want you to help her with chores/work/homework… because that’s what will make her feel loved.
9. Cuddle with her
Sometimes, it’s about laying the groundwork. And while cuddling may not always lead to sex, it’ll still bring both of you closer and connect each other intimately. And intimacy is definitely a great start to sexual arousal.
Just go through these 9 tips to keep your woman happy, and you’ll have a woman who’ll be jumping with excitement because she has such a thoughtful guy!