One of the excellent and easiest ways to establish attraction is to tease your partner. Mastering the art of teasing in order to set up sexual intimacy is not a rocket science. You need to be playful and flirty. Knowing how to tease a girl can be extremely valuable. There’s something really special about a guy who can tease you and leave you thinking about him all day. There isn’t a better feeling than to leave your girl thinking about you for the rest of the day and wanting you even more than before.
If you leave her mind stimulated enough, or touch her the right way, there is a chance you’ll have a fabulous success rate at teasing her to a point where she can’t resist you anymore. The study found couples who playfully teased each other were better able to deal with conflict than those who don’t. They knew how to vent their frustrations in affectionate ways that ultimately led to a stronger bond. They also were happier and were more likely to stay together overall.
So if you want an incredible sex life with the girl you like and bring playfulness and exploration to your relationship. Here are some of the best ways to do it:
1. Focus on the Erogenous Zone
An erogenous zone is an area of the human body that has heightened sensitivity, which, when stimulated, may create a sexual response such as relaxation, thoughts of sexual fantasies, sexual arousal and orgasm. It’s a place where you can create the maximum amount of pleasure and if you do it just about right you can make the girl go abso crazy. Women are usually very sensitive along their neck, collarbone, inner thighs and their ears. So if you fiddle around these areas, it will turn her on and you’ll be quite a tease, indeed. The best way to go about this is by waking her up in the morning by gently caressing or fondling her around her erogenous zones, until she can’t take it anymore. Then just get up and leave for work and we guarantee, she’ll be thinking about you all day long.
2. Sext It Up
Sexting is a very practical way to flirt with your spouse as well. Talk to her about the last time you had sex. Describe what you liked the most. Tell her what you’d do differently this time. Go into detail. Just telling what are you going to do with her. Draw everything out. Text her on and off about the last time you both had sex. Tell her how good it felt and what you missed out on doing to her. Talk about what you loved her doing to you and how you would try different things with her whenever you get a chance to next. Keep her on her toes, imagining different sexual scenarios in her head with you. And leave her waiting. She will hate you for this but believe me its worth!
3. Kiss Her, But Don’t Touch
This one is quite difficult for most guys because they habitually use kissing as a means of getting into the nitty-gritty of lovemaking. But this time, you’re going to torture her (and perhaps yourself) by sticking to the mouth area and nowhere else. Put your hands on either side of her face and bring her mouth to yours. Spend about three full minutes kissing her mouth slowly and passionately. This will not only freak her out and turn her on like crazy, but it’ll leave her with a lasting impression.
4. Let Her Know How Wild She Drives You
Let her know how wild and horny she makes you. Women love to hear a guy talk about what turns them on and when she’s the reason you’re turned on, tell her about it. She will definitely want to up her game even more and make you hornier than you already are. If she knows what turns you on in bed she will try it with you again and then you have the power to deny her that act, making her wanting you even more.
5. Talk Dirty and Fantasize
Don’t let the to-and-fro motion get too monotonous when you’re in bed with your woman. Talk to her now and then, compliment her body or the way she feels against your body. And if you want to push the boundaries further, dirty talk with her about a sexual fantasy. Tell her all the things you’d like to do when you get home. Make her anticipate pulling in the driveway and walking through the door. Not only does this put your lips at her ear – an erogenous zone – but it puts those dirty thoughts in her head. The thing that makes you an extra tease is the fact that she can’t act on any of those things until later.
6. Go easy
You know how when you get turned on all you want is for your lover to pull you close and touch you all over? Girls are the same way. They like a rough hand so they can really feel it intensely. One way to tease a girl is to deny her that pressure. Give her gentle touches and gentle kisses. Trail your lips subtly down her neck but don’t be rough at all just yet. This will turn her on and make her crave your touch more deeply.
7. Play Hard To Give In Bed
This will drive her insane. Pull away with whatever is making her go wild in bed and do something she likes less of instead, every now and then. Spoiling her at first and taking away the pleasure will drive her crazy and make her want you back threefold. Prevent her from kissing or touching you back as you proceed to do as you wish to her.
8. Spoon In Bed
Many a couple spends their time lying in a spoon position at night, for the duration of slumber or even in the morning, but now you’re going to use such a position to your advantage. When you’re lying behind her, tickle her neck with your lips and start kissing the area softly. Make her beg for you to touch her there.
9. Morning Sex- Interrupted
Yes we know its the most difficult tease to pull off because if she becomes incredibly responsive, you may not be able to hold back. The thing is that you have to practice coitus interruptus in this episode. When she begins to get extremely excited, pull out and ask her if she wants to continue. She’ll, of course, give you a resounding “yes!” You have to tell her that you will continue the fun, but at night when you get home from work. The fact that you can demonstrate such discipline, not to mention tease her so badly that she won’t be able to think about anything else throughout the day, will definitely raise your greatest-man-in-the-world status through the stratosphere.
It’s kind of like when you start talking about ice cream to someone who’s on a diet. The second that thought gets put in their head, they can’t stop thinking about it until they finally get it. That’s how this works when teasing a girl. Teasing women doesn’t come naturally to most guys; it’s a behavior that you must learn and practice. And with the help of the amazing tips, you can definitely work wonders on your sex life.