Intimacy is not just about making love; it is the build-up of anticipation, the rush of exhilaration and an outburst of excitement. Intimacy strengthens the threads of a relationship, helps to establish communication and lays the foundation for a happy journey together. But then again, intimacy should be something beyond just holding hands, giving a hug and cuddling up, right?
Well, to help you keep your relationship fresh and shielded from boredom, here are some tempting intimate ideas that every couple must be trying out at least once. Just take a look at these, and we are sure our list will get some excitement running through your nerves.
1. Pay attention to the little things
A huge bulk of it really relies on being able to find the meaning and depth of the little things that make up your relationship. It’s being able to find the value of the small stuff that you do consistently on a daily basis. The good morning greetings, the running of errands, the random hugs and cuddles, the goodbye kisses. These are all seemingly little things that, when accumulated over time, can really bring two people closer together.
2. Try out ice-skating together
Locate an ice-skating rink in your town, pick a good day and enjoy a unique experience with your partner. Ice-skating is fun when you are with the one you love. Hold hands, swirl together, fall in each other’s arms, and compete with other couples. This unique and intimate experience on ice will surely help to heat things up between you and your sweetheart. It is the responsibility of the better skater out of the two of you to guide the other partner.
3. Put in the extra effort whenever you can
Never be complacent. Complacency is one of the greatest enemies of intimacy in a relationship. Always put in the effort in your relationship. And whenever you can, put in some extra effort. Show your partner that you are always willing to go the extra mile.
4. Have fun and refreshing dates often
Never underestimate just how important it is for you to have fun and refreshing dates often. Dates are great because they give the both of you the opportunity to really connect and bond with one another in a more conducive setting. You are given the opportunity to just spend quality time with one another and you get to temporarily block out all of the world’s problems.
5. Try some shower sex
Shower sex is fun. Not only are you enjoying each other’s sexual bodies in a new environment, but you’re also conserving water. You’re saving your relationship and the environment at the same time. Just make sure to be careful with your movements so as to avoid any unwanted injuries.
6. Food for love
There are tons of ways to add food in to your fantasies. Peaches, bananas, grapes, apples and the King of fruit passion- strawberries; they can all make things more “interesting” for you in bed. Just be sure to keep some towels ready beforehand in order to keep the sheets from getting dirty.
7. Never be withholding of compliments and praises
Even the simplest compliment will be enough to bring the two of you closer together as a couple. Never be withholding of your compliments. Show your partner just how much you are impressed by them.
8. Watch porn together
Porn is great. It isn’t as dirty or as classless as a lot of people would actually lead you to believe. There’s nothing wrong with watching a couple of professionals do what they do best on screen. You and your partner could probably even pick up a few tips and tricks along the way.
9. Find new ways
At the end of the day, it’s really about what the two of you want to do with your relationship. You know your relationship best and so you have to take it upon yourselves to find ways to really get closer to one another. This article is a great starting point, but the special things that you come up on your own will be more meaningful.