Ladies, you want a man that seeks out these amazing qualities, the type of qualities that are extremely more important than looks when you are seeking a good partner and lover. Some women are born natural goddesses. They are not necessarily the most beautiful, but their beauty radiates from the inside, built upon self-confidence and self-esteem. This is what makes them so irresistible to men. Men are drawn to high-value women the same way bees are attracted to honey. Curious about these oh-so-amazing qualities that men just have a difficult time resisting.
Here are 9 qualities men find totally irresistible:
1. She is always kind.
Being kind is a wonderful trait to have as you want someone that is gracious and not just to the people they have to be but to everyone. She makes you feel respected and supported. She doesn’t belittle you or focus on what she wishes you were like. Warmth, kindness, and generosity are incredibly attractive, and absolutely necessary to a healthy, long term relationship.
2. She enjoys and stays present to what is happening now.
She lives and relishes each moment life gives her. She just observes what kind of man she is dealing with right now — that’s it. Many women are natural planners — they get obsessed and controlling about the littlest details. When you’re able to relax and enjoy whatever life gives you with a grain of salt and gratitude, this makes you a treasure — as this is a very rare quality among women. He will be so intrigued by your aura that he can’t help but think about you even when you are not around.
3. She keeps herself a mystery to men.
She is full of rich, colorful layers, carefully peeling each layer one by one to her lover, making her man gasp with delight with each new discovery. Mystery is what keeps relationships new. She is capable of stepping outside of the box every time. She knows how to maintain the chase in a relationship, by not revealing all of her cards at once.
4. She is not addicted to love.
She is not in love with the idea of love, needing to be in love to be and feel complete. She knows and is certain that she is complete and worthy, with or without romantic love. In fact, she doesn’t need love and is not actively finding it. Rather, she enjoys her life. She knows exactly what she wants out of life as well as in a partner. Men are most attracted to this type of quality because women who know themselves know exactly what they stand for, they know their worth, what they like and don’t like and aren’t afraid to speak their minds.
5. She is down to earth.
She is capable of going with the flow in any situation. She is capable of savoring the little things in life. Who knows what is truly important in life such as family, friends, love, and connection. Men want a woman that is honest but practical, she knows how to have fun whether it is going on a crazy adventure or staying in and cooking dinner and watching a movie.
6. She does things with self-confidence.
She is confident. She doesn’t cling or pull at her man when he seems distant or withdrawn, allowing him to enjoy his time away from her but at the same time honest with him that she misses him. She respects what her heart feels and doesn’t lash out on her man for making her feel that way.
7. She is not clingy.
When a relationship is over, she can walk away without drama, even if the man is the first one to ghost away. Conversely, she also ends the relationship if she feels it is no longer serving her or her man. She doesn’t cling to the idea of “love” when it clearly isn’t working for them anymore.
8. She pursues her passion.
A woman of high-value and integrity will have her own friends, hobbies, passions, and things when her boyfriend isn’t with her. If a guy wants a night out for himself or hangs out with his friends without you, an irresistible woman won’t make a huge deal out of it or do something totally unattractive or desperate to get invited. You will unhappy, and will also make your man miserable if you make him the center of your life. He will never do the things you always wanted to do, and you’ll make him feel guilty all the time of not doing things with you.
9. She is easy going.
Men love women who are easy-going, can relax, not try to control every situation. For example, if your man is making dinner for you, and chopping tomatoes, don’t tell to cut them half in cubes or one-inch cubes. Instead, let him do his thing.