When the girl lights up seeing you and gets seduced by every move of yours, that’s when a beautiful love story starts. Firstly, if you want to seduce a girl or even make her like you, you need to be a great guy who can get the girl’s attention. If you can’t be the kind of guy who can impress a girl easily, you may still be able to seduce the girl you like, but it’ll be a lot harder to win her flirty attention.
Seduction is an art that is difficult to master. Each woman is different, and you’ll never know if all you have researched about seducing women would work on her. If you are interested and admired a woman staying next to your building or some lady who’s working in your office and still haven’t managed to grab her attention, then read on to know the 11 best ways of how to seduce a woman.
1. Create A Sexy Environment
The ambience and environment you create is essential if you up to make your seduction acts work. Women instinctively appreciate romantic atmospheres that are quiet, candle-lit and with soft playing music in the background. This kind of ambience tends to move the minds of women in the sexual direction unlike men that have little or no care for such.
2. Talk About Common Things You Share
Look for common activities you’ve both participated in to talk about. Women enjoy it when you get the mood and timing for your seduction right. Bringing up sex a little too early may tank your chances of ever having it with her. Take for instance you meet her in the club, chances are you’d get her back to your place. Don’t ask her straight up to come see your bed as it looks predetermined. Simply follow her lead.
3. Try to be A Bit Mysterious
Being mysterious is another key to seducing a woman. Try to be a bit mysterious in the beginning, send her flowers and gifts titled from a secret admirer and when you get a clue that she is getting restless to know who you are, then set up a time and place where you would meet her.
4. Build the sexual tension
By now, she’d feel the sexual tingle each time you touch her accidentally or otherwise. This is where you need to make her crave your touch. Let your hand linger on her back or on her arms as you touch her. Go really close and whisper something in her ear. Speak softly and play with her fingers when no one’s around. Build the sexual attraction right, and she’d turn into putty in your hands!
5. Play to her sense of smell.
A pleasant aroma—mixed with a cocktail of pheromones—goes a long way toward turning everyone on, since your olfactory sense is the strongest. “Incense and natural smells are always better than cheesy cologne. Individual smell preferences differ from woman to woman, so impress her even more by asking if she prefers the scent of sandalwood, roses—or a garlicky tomato sauce instead. “A little research into what she likes can go a long way in the bedroom.”
6. Get into her comfort zone
When you get some alone time with her, sit closer to her and pretend like you didn’t notice how close you’re sitting. You’ve been flirting with her, now you need to get into her personal space to make her feel the sexual chemistry. Touch her arms or her fingers while saying something, place your hands around her waist while sidestepping across her or walking past her, touch her while complimenting her, or hug her for just a second longer while saying goodbye.
7. That dirty conversation
You’ve been texting her, flirting with her and seducing her every single night. And if she’s been playing along all this while, this is where you talk dirty and make the big move. Initiate a dirty conversation over the phone. Start simple, and ask her a question that seems innocent, but would definitely lead to something dirty. And before you know it, both of you would be having phone sex with each other!
8. Ask her out
Once you’ve had phone sex with her, you’ve seduced her already. Now all you need to do is make out with each other in person. Ask her out, or tell her you really want to meet her sometime. Make plans to meet up in your place or hers, and avoid going out on a date unless you’re trying to woo her or make her fall in love with you. This is where you need to choose whether you’re looking for a friends-with-benefits relationship or a romance.
9. Be confident—not egomaniacal
There’s a very fine line between the two. “Confidence is rooted in, ‘I am comfortable with myself and I believe in what I’m doing,’ and being ego-driven is primarily based in insecurity. “Confidence comes from the inside out, and ego is coming from the outside in.” So don’t brag about your sweet wheels or that you’re tight with a hot-shot club promoter, let the cool things about you leak out more subtly. A guy with humility is far sexier to a woman than a show-off. “The guys who are most comfortable in their own skin get the most women. A six pack doesn’t hurt, but it’s not necessary.”
10. Eye contact
The key to seducing is eye contact. Looking into a woman’s eyes has a very powerful effect on her. However, do not over do it by staring at her. When she is talking to you, make sure you maintain a steady eye contact.
11. Make out with her!
And when you finally do meet her *and she knows why you want to meet her*, don’t jump on her right away just because both of you have had phone sex already.
If you use these tips on how to seduce a woman and get her in bed, you’ll definitely be able to work your magic and seduce her. But remember, this works only if you get her interested in you first. So take it slow, watch her response, and make your move.