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Unrealistic Expectations For Relationship, People Often Have

We all wish to have a relationship that is tailored on our liking. We all know people who spent their life seeking that perfect someone who can meet their expectations in their relationship. We picked up many unrealistic expectations from romantic movies and TV shows, where they convince us that those are what we deserve in a relationship. Truth is, no relationship is perfect. We can, however, make our relationship more fulfilling and exciting. A good relationship requires effort, hard work and dedication from both partners. Unrealistic expectation for relationships, often causes unpleasantness, arguments and chaos in a relationship. Here are 8 unrealistic relationship expectation you should avoid, if you want to live happily with your partner:

 

1. Your Partner Should Understand Your Feelings

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In an intimate relationship, couples often expect that their partner should know and understand all their needs and expectations without communicating. So when our partner fails to live up to our unrealistic expectation, disappointment and unhappiness starts to creep in the relationship. You shouldn’t expect your partner to be able to read your mind and always act according to your wishes.

Always remember, your partner is a different human being. So you can’t turn your partner just like your wishes and expectations. Don’t expect your partner to always understand your feelings and moods, so try to communicate with him more openly. Try to talk about your relationship with your partner and discuss any problems and try to solve them. A good communication is a key factor in a good and healthy relationship.

2. They will never notice anyone else

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Just because they are in a relationship with you, doesn’t mean that they will not look at other people. We are only human, and we will be noticing other people along the way. That doesn’t mean that your partner is being unfaithful to you. It just simply means that they enjoy looking at different people too. Getting upset over this is only going to affect your relationship with them, since this show that you don’t trust them enough and that you don’t have faith in them. Remember that you can’t make someone stay if they intend to leave, but you can definitely do your part to be the best partner for them. Instead of getting upset over it, you can learn to appreciate looking at what they are noticing, and acknowledge the beauty of the other person too.

3. Emotionally Connect With Your Partner

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As two different individuals, you can’t be emotionally connected to your partner all the time. It is true that there will be times when you both have perfect emotional connection. But don’t expect that you’ll be emotionally close to your partner all the time as it is one of the unrealistic expectations that are harmful for a relationship. He can’t be always in a happy and cheerful mood when you expect him to be.

Similarly don’t expect him to feel your problems and tensions all the time without proper communication. As your relationship grows, you’ll be able to master the skill of connecting emotionally to your partner more and more. Good timing, patience and affection are the key things that can help you to come more close to your partner emotionally and spiritually.

4. Conflicts Don’t Occur in A Good Relationship

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Conflicts are inevitable in a relationship and it is quite normal to have conflicts and arguments every now and then in a relationship. According to relationship experts, conflicts can actually help you to make your relationship stronger and healthier than before. But one of the unrealistic expectations we usually have that conflicts don’t occur in a good relationship. Or for a relationship to work, we should avoid conflict at any cost. This approach is very wrong and can actually harm your relationship badly.

Conflicts tell us about the likes and dislikes of our partner and help us understand him more. If we resolve our conflict wisely, it will surely make our relationship stronger and our lives happier. Try to cool down things in a fight by addressing the issue and talk about it. Don’t make your conflict a very serious issue but try to solve the problem by discussing it with each other.

5. They will always support everything you do

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We all have different values that we hold on to in our lives. There will be times when your partner does not support your actions and decisions. You might get upset over it, but this will happen in every relationship. If you expect them to support your actions, even if what you do are against their values, you will only push them away, because they will slowly feel like they will always have to go against their own values when they are with you. Let’s say if you don’t like spicy food. Imagine if your partner, insist that you eat the spicy food, claiming that you will definitely like it, even though you dislike it with all your heart. How will you feel? We are all entitled to our actions and decisions, as long as they don’t affect others. Understand that expecting them to support everything you do is not only unfair to them, but also unhealthy for your relationship.

6. Couples Should Always Be Together

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It is very important for couples to spend time together to make their bond stronger. They should go out occasionally for a romantic dinner or enjoy each other’s company as these things help to connect emotionally. But expecting your partner to be always with you is another one of the unrealistic expectations that can ruin a relationship. As an individual, you and your partner should give each other proper space to practice your individual hobbies.

You should spend some time with your friends occasionally, go to your favorite park or read your some book of your choice. These small things and alone time give you more energy for your relationship and make your relationship strong.

7. Relationships Are Very Easy to Maintain

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One of the common mistake and unrealistic expectation people mostly have that all relationships are romantic and easy like in a movie or in a romantic novel. Reality is quite opposite to this. No relationship is easy and every relationship needs proper time, effort, love, affection, patience and dedication to grow strong. Ups and downs are the part of a relationship. If your relationship is going through hard times, it doesn’t mean that your love for each other is finished.

It means that your relationship requires more effort, patience, love and commitment to deal with problems and conflicts. You should let go of unrealistic expectations and hopes for a relationship to work.
Getting rid these unrealistic expectations will surely make your relationship stronger and everlasting and it will also make your life happier and healthier.

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