What Women Find Attractive In A Guy : Traits Girls Instantly Fall For

“What do women want” is a question that men have been asking themselves for decades, if not hundreds of years. Because every single woman will have different and subjective criteria for choosing a partner, trying to come up with a universal answer can be daunting and confusing. But the truth is, regardless of whether or not your have the perfect smile or the perfect height, there are certain things women do want almost universally: they just happen to be the inner qualities of a person. By promoting a positive personality, avoiding negative qualities, and treating women right, any man can be the kind of guy every girl wants.

1. High Level Of Masculinity

All feminine women want a masculine man. Women are naturally attracted to a man who has the right kind of energy to balance out their yin, so it just makes sense that a masculine man would attract feminine women. This is why so many women end up with jerks or bad boys. They all have that masculine aura that attracts women to them. But, you don’t have to be a jerk or a bad boy to have a masculine energy.

2. Sense of Humor

Women like men who will make them laugh. This is a classic known fact. Laughing releases happy hormones… it’s not our fault. Also, laughing also subconsciously indicates to us that the guy is a good person. So, if you’ve been trying to pull of the mysterious guy act, give it a rest.

3. Charming Personality

A charming personality is everything, but yet it’s not something most men have. In fact, meeting a man who knows to charm a girl is a hard task for any woman. Improve your body language around women and learn your manners around them.

4. Honesty, But Not Too Much

Okay, women do want a man who’s honest, however, to a point. When it comes to important topics, yes, of course, we want a man to be honest. However, if we ask you how we look in a new dress and you don’t like it, do not say that we look fat or ugly in it. Lighten up on your honesty and go for a more neutral answer.

5. Romance

Now, you don’t need to throw rose petals all over the bed and learn how to play the violin, that isn’t necessarily the definition of romance. Making her dinner, buying her flowers, going on a weekend road trip–these are all romantic gestures. Women want a man that is going to appreciate them and show them the appreciation.

6. Good Social Skills

Strong communication skill is one of the top attractive traits in a partner for both men and women, and staying open and communicative with those around you will demonstrate this strength.  Keep positive relations with those you meet throughout life. By showing you are friendly, honest, and always willing to lend a hand, you will always have someone willing to back you up in times of need.

7. Reliability

Women need a guy that can help them do the chores around the house and help them when they need it most. A man that is reliable, is a true treasure. He is on time and will be there when you need him. He is a guy that won’t flake out because things get bumpy in the relationship or won’t dip because you are having a personal disaster. If a he is there for you no matter what, he is a keeper! This is why so many women keep searching for a trait like this in men because they are rare.

8. Confidence

Confidence is a great trait to have for any man. It’s an inner strength that’s seen and envied by anyone you meet. A confident man is more attractive to women because he believes in himself and his abilities, and he doesn’t tuck tail and run when he knows he’s right.

9. Respectful Behavior

Be respectful towards others when they deserve your respect. All good natured women like a well mannered and kind man who doesn’t treat others badly just because he can. Don’t be rude to waiters or your subordinates unless you have a reason to. Treat everyone with respect and you’ll be treated with respect. Women see kind men as good fathers, and it’s a trait that women instinctively like. Have good etiquette and treat women chivalrously, and you’ll notice them warming up to you almost instantly.

10. Blind Loyalty

We all have big egos – men and women alike. We want to feel special. We want to feel unique and better than the rest. We’re competitive by nature and there is no getting around it. Women want a man who sees the world in her. Her and only her. She knows she’s not the most beautiful or smartest woman in the world, but she doesn’t need to be – she’s not delusional. She just wants you to think – know – that she’s the most beautiful, best woman in the world for you.

11. A Man Who Loves What He Does